Sunday, July 09, 2006

Pretty Woman


I saw a woman on bart a few days ago. She sat there with lilac eyelids, compact in one hand and mascara wand in the other. I watched as she brushed her eyelashes for a good ten minutes, her hands precise, efficient, and fastidious. She squinted into the mirror, dectected an imprefection, and quickly fixed it. After her lashes were perfection, she gave her eyebrows a finishing sweep with the wand.

The bart stopped.

She snapped her compact shut and donned on a pair of heavy, oval glasses. Now, she no longer had to squint. Tossing everything into her bag, she stood up and left. I realized, as she walked passed me, that she really wasn't attractive. She had a faint double chin. Her underwear line showed through her black pants. But I wondered how long it took for her to put herself together that morning. What pains did she take to look like she did?

Then, I rediscovered a truth. Every girl--whether fat, petite, tall, or short--want to be considered beautiful. We add extra touches to ourselves to stand out. Rhinestone studs. A necklace. Charms.

All we really want is to be pretty. So, next time you see a girl, let it be a friend or friendly stranger, notice something about her and compliment it. Chances are she's been waiting the whole day for someone to notice.

7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

aww, that's a really good thing of you to say. and i do agree completely. but i really cannot take my eyes off the bottom picture and the obviously digitally enhanced line of cleavage down that girl's chest. hahahah.

1:12 AM

 
Blogger Thy Queen said...

Hahaahaha, oh god, I never even noticed the cleavage. Now it's really bothering me. I'm gonna take it out.

1:31 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

True. True.
I can't think of anything to say...you seem to have covered it all.
Nice post.
:)

10:12 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

lol, this is such a corny, yet sweet post. i can't help but reminded of this one oprah show. ok, so basically it was about being nice to ppl. that was the dedication of the whole show. and there were this family named "The Smiles" no jk. their last names were smile. mr and mrs. smile. i dunno, and they would go to their neighbor's houses when they would just move in and give them a smiley balloon. it just all reminds me of how we all really appreciate nice people, and of course, smiles. :)

p.s. do you think the compliment/pretty thing makes people shallow, or others thoughtful?

7:29 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I couldn't agree more.

11:17 PM

 
Blogger le speck said...

Nice post and very sweet of you at the end.

My trick: pick one aspect (such as hair) and look for just that in the people you see. You won't be able to tell everyone you meet everyday that they have a nice new look, but people's hair noticeably change a couple times a year, so whenever they do get a haircut and you make a comment, they'll know you've been paying attention.

6:34 PM

 
Blogger Thy Queen said...

I'm glad everyone agrees. And yes, it is a bit corny. :P

Percia, I don't quite understand what you're trying to ask.

2:02 AM

 

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